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Writer's pictureTabitha Taylor

5 readings for funerals about the idea of candles, fire and light

Lighting a candle is common way to remember a lost one's life, so I decided to explore this in poetry and prose for April's radio show.



The Candle by Catherine Turner

A candle burns bright in a window of gold 

A candle burns bright in a window of gold

A beacon for life's weary heart

Promising beauty and splendours untold

Of a world that now keeps us apart

We travelled the path of our lives side by side

But this path you walked on your own

To a world where no pain and no suffering reside

While I stay in this world alone

So darling please tend to the candle for me

And nourish the flame lest it dies

Till the day when its radiant beauty I see

And it guides me at last to your side


Paul Alexander “Light A Candle”

And I will light a candle for you

To shatter all the darkness and bless the times we knew

Like a beacon in the night

The flame will burn bright and guide us on our way

Oh, today I light a candle for you

The seasons come and go, and I’m weary from the change

I keep moving on, you know it’s not the same

And when I’m walking all alone

Do you hear me call your name?

Do you hear me sing the songs we used to sing?

You filled my life with wonder, touched me with surprise

Always saw that something special deep within your eyes

And through the good times and the bad

We carried on with pride

I hold on to the love and life we knew


In the Winter in Fairbanks, Even the Light Comes Late to Class by Nicole Stellon O'Donnell

On Monday in December the sun rises at 10:40. Red sky. Black clouds.

Among all the slouched backs, curved necks, and notebook-scrawling hands,

only one student notices, a girl, the one writing about the room in which

her mother died. She says, I have never seen a sunrise like that, and twenty-eight

other heads look up from their pens and notebooks. I had never and will

never again read a description of a hospital bed like the one she was writing

at that moment. Years later, she will email to ask if I have that piece she wrote

about her mother, and I will have to tell her I don’t. But this morning, neither

of us can foresee this future small grief. So I stop class while all twenty-nine

line up at the windows to watch the light. Fifty-eight eyes open out onto

snow, the parking lot, the shovel-scraped sidewalk, red brake lights, dull

frosted stop signs. Red sky and burnt clouds. This morning, deep winter,

sunrise comes, hours late, long after the tardy bell and without excuse.


Do Not Go Gentle Into That Good Night by Charles Bukowski

Do not go gentle into that good night,

Old age should burn and rave at close of day;

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Though wise men at their end know dark is right,

Because their words had forked no lightning they

Do not go gentle into that good night.

Good men, the last wave by, crying how bright

Their frail deeds might have danced in a green bay,

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Wild men who caught and sang the sun in flight,

And learn, too late, they grieve it on its way,

Do not go gentle into that good night.

Grave men, near death, who see with blinding sight

Blind eyes could blaze like meteors and be gay,

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

And you, my father, there on the sad height,

Curse, bless, me now with your fierce tears, I pray.

Do not go gentle into that good night.

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.


After Glow by Helen Lowrie Marshall

I’d like the memory of me to be a happy one.

I’d like to leave an after glow of smiles when life is done.

I’d like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways,

Of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days.

I’d like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun

Of happy memories that I leave when life is done

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